Sacramento, CA. — It’s unfortunate that this even needs to be said, but sometimes curiosity turns into something more intrusive than intended. During our TikTok lives, we occasionally get questions like, “Why is John Doe in a wheelchair?” or “Why is Mary disabled?”
We understand that people may be curious, but the honest answer is simple: it’s not your business.
Members of our community, including some of our volunteers, live with disabilities. They are here to be part of the same shared experience as everyone else, not to have their personal lives questioned or explained. Their medical history, personal challenges, or life circumstances are private, and they have every right to keep those details to themselves.
It’s important to remember that being part of a community means showing respect, kindness, and basic human decency. Asking someone to explain their disability, especially in a public setting, can be uncomfortable and inappropriate. No one should feel singled out or put on display.
We ask that everyone be mindful of how they engage. Focus on the purpose of our lives, support one another, and help us maintain a welcoming and respectful space for all.
Tim & Jen
